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[1][2][3][4][5][6][7][8][9] | | 19/06/2009 | Tips and Advice For Finding Romance on Free London Dating WebsitesBy Bryan HalversonThere are several free London dating sites which you can go to in order to find your perfect date in London. Some cater for lesbian dating, others for gays, and nearly all have a section for straight people looking for a date. There are a number of pointers and tips I would offer in order to get the most out of these types of sites.
Firstly, you need to ensure that your profile is as complete as possible. I would always recommend that you upload a photo, as most potential partners will want to see what you look like, and that you are a genuine person on the free London dating site in question. Make sure that you upload a recent photo of yourself – there is nothing worse than posting a picture of yourself when you were 2... [read more] | | | 19/06/2009 | How Dating Has Changed in the 21st CenturyBy Lance MetzgerWith an article title like this, one might assume that I am ready to tell you some extraordinary news about a new dating environment. Sure, the Internet has introduced one more way for people to meet, but does that actually change the dating scene?
Interestingly, a friend of mine met his current wife online, but not from across country, rather from across town. The two of them lived just five miles apart. Jokingly, we have talked about it from the standpoint of "you could have met, if only you had been willing to get out more." But it was not that easy. Sure, in theory they probably could have met when they were out and running around, but if you talk to both and ask them the places they go and the people they know, the c... [read more] | | | 19/06/2009 | 12 Fun and Cheap Dates Christians Can Take Girls OnBy Jim F. GrahamWhatever date you choose, just remember that you are going out to be with each other, not just to be entertained. The main attraction is you! The date is just an excuse to be together and experience something new. Some of these ideas may seem lame, but girls generally like them because they are creative and unique. They’ve been on plenty dates to movies, bowling, etc. Going out to eat is always good, but usually you need something to do afterwards. Here are some ideas!
1) Buy a kite and fly it. Kites are cheap and you can find them just about anywhere. Go together and pick one out (that’s part of the fun) and take it to a park. You’ll have to put it together as well. If you are really adventurous you could download plans ... [read more] | | | 12/05/2009 | Is it Bad to Date More Than One Woman at the Same Time? And Are “Categories” Controlling Your Dating Life?By John A.Is It Bad To Date More Than One Woman At The Same Time?
Whenever someone opts out of my list, they get the chance to leave comments, and some of the parting comments I get are hilarious. Some are quite complimentary, others are quite rude, and some tell me I’m going straight to hell because I advocate sinning with more than one women. Those always crack me up the most.
Why? Because nowhere do I advocate a particular lifestyle. Unlike many of these guys who really want to force their philosophy on the world, I simply provide information, leaving it up to the individual to decide how to best use it for himself.
But that does bring up the practical question—is dating multiple women a good or bad thing? The answer is, it dep... [read more] | | | 12/05/2009 | The Meaning of Meaning With Women and Do “Affirmations” Work For Dating?By John A.The Meaning Of Meaning With Women
On with today’s episode. What does it mean when a woman smiles at you? Or when she flips her hair at you? Or when she ignores you? Do you know? Or does it even matter?
Today I’m going to share one of the most powerful things I’ve ever learned about “meaning,” something that can truly liberate your emotions around women, something that will allow you to never feel rejected or beat down again.
Here it is: there is no meaning to any event, except that meaning we assign to it. AND, we are free to choose to assign an event any meaning we want. Events have no meaning, we as humans are meaning-makers.
Now you guys who’ve done the Forum/EST deal will recognize that immediately. And while I’m n... [read more] | | | 12/05/2009 | Why Men Fail With WomenBy John A.Human nature is incredibly fascinating to me, and I am in a unique position to observe it. There are a lot of guys on this list, and it is always an interesting exercise to see the different reactions of people to the exact same email, or the exact same information.
This, of course, has to do with what’s called “map or model of the world”—everyone gets the same input, but the reaction (output) is different. Why? Because how the individual views the world governs response to behavior. Your map or model of the world determines your outcomes in life. Luckily, if you’re not getting the results you want, you can simply change your map or model and the results will follow.
Today I want to talk about what I call “failure maps.” Eve... [read more] | | | 12/05/2009 | Attraction Begins (And Ends) With Your Self ImageBy John A.A few days ago I sent out an email with the title, “Are you just plain scared of rejection?” What was interesting to me was some of the responses I got back. Today I’m going to share some of those with you, and comment on why these men have no chance with any woman—until they change their self image.
If you have a self image that says you’re unattractive to women, you will be. Why would any woman want to be with a man who considers himself unattractive? The answer is, they don’t. Attraction begins with self image—the good news is, self image is not hard to change.
Here are the emails…
Not to be mean, but I'm a skeptic. Personally I'm a insecure guy who probably won't be getting any na na for a while. I clam up before the ... [read more] | | | 12/05/2009 | Are “Categories” Controlling Your Dating Life? And is it Bad to Date More Than One Woman at the Same Time?By John A.Are “Categories” Controlling Your Dating Life?
In case you haven’t noticed, we live in a complicated world. Massive amounts of information are presented to us daily, and as a result, we have to come up with ways to simplify the use of that information.
One of the ways we do it, is by categorizing other people, and then relating to them based on that category.
For example, if a guy with flashing lights on his car and a badge on his chest pulls you over, you’re going to act a certain way towards him. Why? Because you automatically put him in the “cop category.” If you see the exact same guy in the gym working out, you’ll act totally different in his presence. Why? Because the category you put him in changed.
Categories a... [read more] | | | 12/05/2009 | If This Surprises You About Dating, You’re in Big Trouble and How to Get Her Wondering If YOU Like Her… For a ChangeBy J. AlanisIf This Surprises You About Dating, You’re In Big Trouble
A get a lot of correspondence from guys that goes something like this: “I met this woman, we hit it off so I asked her out- and I was surprised when she said yes!”
What usually follows this is a story about the woman flaking, or a question as to why there wasn’t a second meeting after the first one.
Here’s why this happens: because you were “surprised she said yes,” you doubt your ability to create attraction with her. You believe you’re going to fail. And when you believe you’re going to fail you will.
This applies doubly so to creating attraction with women. Why? Because women instantly pick up on what you’re feeling inside. If you’re feeling naughty, playfu... [read more] | | | 12/05/2009 | Welcome to the Age of the Wuss and What to Say to Women For a DateBy John A.Welcome To The Age Of The Wuss
Last night I stopped by Best Buy and wound up picking up the DVD, “War of the Worlds” (the original 50’s movie, not the recent Spielberg one which I like very much). I’d never seen it before, and I wanted to compare it to the latest one.
What struck me most about that movie were how the men were portrayed—strong, decisive, confident, and most of all comfortable with authority… a stark contrast to how men are portrayed today.
If you want to see a great example of how to be an attractive man, pick up any movie from this era (along with any Sean Connery James Bond movies). Watch one, then watch a contemporary movie or TV show, and you will be ASTOUNDED at the difference.
I knew it was bad, b... [read more] |
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