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[2][3][4][5][6][7][8][9][10] | | 12/05/2009 | What If She Makes Fun of You, Then REJECTS You?By John A.Do you know what stops most men from attracting women? I’ll tell you what it’s not, then tell you what it is. It’s not rejection. Women rarely reject men unless given a reason by the man to reject them. And, the truth is, most men DO give women a reason to reject them.
The reason? FEAR of rejection. That’s what kills most initial attraction. If she feels that you’re afraid of her or of rejection, it will kill the attraction. She won’t know why, all she’ll know is that it was there, and gone. And when it’s gone, you will be too.
I received an email from a man today, asking me about this very subject. Have a look at this question, then pay attention to my answer
Hi John,
I follow your mails from the island of Malta. Well... [read more] | | | 12/05/2009 | How Important Are Women in Your Dating Life? And the Flavor of the Weak in DatingBy John A.How Important Are Women In Your Dating Life?
Every time I check my email box I’m amused. Why? Because I almost always get emails back to back that say completely different things, even though both writers are responding to the same thing.
One guy will say I’m a moron. The next will say I’m a genius. One guy will say I’m a snake oil salesman and a rip off artist. The next will have an incredible success story about how he turned his love life around using my materials, and is now with the woman of his dreams. Amusing stuff, for sure.
There is one recurring topic though, that I think merits discussion—do you really need women in your life? It’s funny—I’ll get an email that says, “if I could only get this one special girl, m... [read more] | | | 12/05/2009 | The Last Word On Dating “Chemistry” - For Now and Where To Practice Basic Dating NaughtinessBy J. AlanisThe Last Word On Dating “Chemistry” - For Now
If you read through any number of women’s online profiles, you’ll see a constant running through them: a desire to feel “chemistry” with a man.
Here are a few of my observations and experiences with “chemistry.” First off, “chemistry” is a word that holds deep meaning for women, but not much meaning for men.
Chemistry is not to be confused with “love” although many people, unfortunately, do so. It’s a transient high that occurs when two people first meet each other, and it’s something that lasts for months, not years—it tends to wear off with time and familiarity.
Chemistry is triggered in women by what I call, “naughty boy” behavior in men… unpredictable, fun, unexpected... [read more] | | | 12/05/2009 | You Are Who You Present Yourself To Be In Dating and Do You Stink? How Do You Know?By J. AlanisYou Are Who You Present Yourself To Be In Dating
Most people are worried about what other people think about them. If a guy meets a woman, one of the first things he usually asks himself (unless he’s one of my students) is “what does she think about me? Does she like me? Am I her type?”
Most people let others define their reality for them because they simply don’t realize you can create your own reality. In the movie The Truman Show, there’s a great line, one to live by: people tend to accept the reality with which they are presented.
If you present yourself as a guy who’s scared of women, women will think of you as a guys who’s scared of women. If you present yourself as a confident guy who’s “good with women,” they’ll... [read more] | | | 12/05/2009 | Unusual Photo Secrets That Make Or Break Female AttractionBy John A.Where can you use your picture with women? Obviously on the internet if you’re attracting women over the web, but if you’re already in a relationship, you want the woman in your life to have one of you, and preferably more. Why? Because everytime she sees it, it reinforces her attraction for you IF you’ve taken it correctly.
The first thing you need to do when you get your picture taken is to make sure you have a genuine smile on your face. Not a phoney, hokey s—t-eating grin, but an honest to goodness smile, the kind you smile just before you start to laugh.
You want to have a “naughty thought” in your mind, and a mischievous look in your eye, so when she thinks of you, she thinks of your “naughty side.” I have tested pictu... [read more] | | | 12/05/2009 | Can I Play With Dating Madness?By J. AlanisI’ve got a pretty good episode for you guys today, one which will help you guys who’ve made poor selections with women in the past. What I’m going to do is teach you how to dis-qualify women who have the potential to wreck your life, before they cause even an ounce of trouble...
I have a friend who has a big problem. All the women he dates are dysfunctional, and he can’t figure out why. Actually, most of the women he dates aren’t merely dysfunctional, they’re psychotic.
In fact, he told me a story about the last woman he dated, how she literally stalked him for three months after their relationship ended, one day calling him a “Nazi,” the next calling him the sweetest guy on earth. It got so bad he decided to sell his hous... [read more] | | | 12/05/2009 | How To Get Her Wondering If You Like Her For A Change and If This Surprises You About Dating, You’re In Big TroubleBy J. AlanisHow To Get Her Wondering If YOU Like Her… For A Change
I hear from a lot of guys who ask, “How do I know if she likes me?” They always want to know if there’s subtle body language hints they should look for, or some other “magic signal” that indicates “female liking.”
I always tell them this is a bad way to think because it gives her the authority and control in the interaction, something women can’t stand. She should be wondering if YOU “like her!”
Why is this important? Think about it for a minute—what emotion are guys feeling when they wonder “does she like me?” Attraction! Aha… could this be useful to us?
Absolutely. When a woman wonders, “does he like me?” she’s attracted. She wouldn’t wonder that otherwise beca... [read more] | | | 12/05/2009 | Are “Trustworthiness” and “Integrity” Bogus Concepts in Dating?By John A.I went into the bank yesterday to make a deposit (a few doers had sent in their checks and money orders for my system, when a customer came in with a look of shock on his face.
He went to the teller and said, “Did you see that guy who just left? He kicked the door, and was cussing—is everything OK?” When he said this, the teller laughed.
“Oh, he does that all the time,” she said, “it’s just how he is. You get used to it—he’s always the same.”
What was interesting to me about this whole event was, if it had been a customer who was always polite and pleasant who’d started cussing and kicking the door, the bank personnel probably would have called the cops instead of laughing.
Why did they laugh? Because the guy was predi... [read more] | | | 12/05/2009 | How to Program Yourself to Automatically Attract Beautiful WomenBy John A.Yesterday afternoon I went for a drive around Austin, looking at big houses in expensive neighborhoods. I’m going to start doing a bit of real estate investing and I wanted to get myself in the proper frame of mind.
Now, as some of you know there are a variety of ways to make money in real estate both in low end and high end houses. I did not, however, go drive around any of the low end areas. Why? Because those places don’t make me feel good. While there is a lot of money to be made with junkers, I prefer to invest in very high dollar areas… because driving around there makes me feel great. More importantly it also gets me accustomed to being around high dollar houses.
See, many real estate investors never touch very high d... [read more] | | | 12/05/2009 | The Potent Power of Observation For Dating and the Meaning of Meaning With WomenBy John A.The Potent Power Of Observation For Dating
One of the most powerful skills you can develop when attracting women is observation—and I don’t mean looking at body parts. As you’ll find out in a bit, very few guys have this skill—but it’s one that can immediately set you apart from all the waldos, one that can make you different to her (in a good way).
When most guys have a conversation with a woman, they spend their time “inside their own heads” instead of paying attention to the woman in front of them. This is a huge mistake because if you pay attention to her, she’ll “tell you” exactly how create attraction for her.
The first step in developing your observation skills is to become a “whole listener.” That means when she’s... [read more] |
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